⛔ Self-Sabotage in Choosing a Partner: When the Biggest Obstacle Is You
💭 “I always choose the wrong person,” “I’ll surely ruin this relationship,” “I don’t deserve love.” If these thoughts cross your mind, you may be engaging in self-sabotage in choosing a partner . This happens when, consciously or unconsciously, we make decisions that push us away from the love we truly desire. 🔎 How Does Self-Sabotage in Love Manifest? 🔹 Fear of commitment: You find flaws in every person you meet or back away when things get serious. 🔹 Choosing the wrong partners: You’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people or those who reinforce negative beliefs about love. 🔹 Insecurity and distrust: You feel unworthy, constantly doubt yourself, and create unnecessary conflicts. 🔹 Constant comparisons: You idealize past relationships or expect perfection in your current one. 🔹 Unconscious self-sabotage: You cancel dates, avoid emotional openness, or create conflicts without reason. 💡 Why Do We Self-Sabotage? Self-sabotage can stem from past experiences, fear ...