MENTAL HEALTH IN THE HEART OF MAUN

Filial guilt appears when a son or daughter feels they failed their parents. It may arise after an illness, a death, a long separation, an unresolved argument, a period of neglect, an absence, or simply from the feeling of not having lived up to what the relationship seemed to demand. This guilt is often very deep because it touches one of the most foundational relationships in life. Parents are usually connected to personal history, childhood, received care, emotional debts, unspoken gratitude, and unresolved wounds. For that reason, when a loss or crisis occurs, it is easy for the son or daughter to become their own accuser. This guilt does not always come from a real fault. Sometimes it comes from love, grief, helplessness, or impossible ideals about what a good son or a good daughter “should” have done. That is why it needs to be looked at with honesty, but also with justice. CHILDREN WHO FEEL THEY FAILED THEIR PARENTS Many sons and daughters feel that they did not do enough for th...

One of the most challenging moments when closing a cycle is learning to forgive and let go. Sometimes we carry resentments, guilt, or open wounds that become invisible chains. Forgiveness doesn’t mean justifying what was done to us or minimizing the harm—it means freeing ourselves from the weight that keeps us tied to the past. Letting go, in turn, is an act of courage: releasing what no longer belongs to us, even if it was once an important part of our lives. 🌿 What does it mean to forgive? 🔹 Freeing ourselves from resentment Resentment is like carrying a heavy stone in your backpack: it drains you, limits you, and keeps you from moving forward. Forgiveness is taking that weight off your shoulders. 🔹 No longer being prisoners of the past When we don’t forgive, we keep reliving the wound over and over. Forgiveness allows us to regain mental and emotional peace. 🔹 Forgiving ourselves It’s not only about forgiving others. We also need to accept our own mistakes, recognize t...