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What others will say

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Decide to act righteously. (Job 11:13) From the moment we are born, we are in constant contact with the opinions and reactions of others to how we think, feel, and act. This feedback from our social environment helps us learn which behaviors are acceptable and which are not, guiding our personal and moral development. An inappropriate stance towards these opinions is constantly worrying about "what others will say" and always seeking approval. This can lead us to behave or live in ways that are very different from what we truly desire and are. - Constantly worrying about "what others will say" is a thief of freedom and opportunities. - The fear of what others will say binds more strongly than a chain. The situation becomes more complicated when we try to please everyone, given the sheer number and contradictions of their opinions. - You can't please everyone. - It's impossible to make everyone happy. On the other hand, completely disregarding or dismissing o