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Jealousy II.

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Some Seek Refuge in a Beehive As a proposal for healthy attitudes towards jealousy, it is important to choose a partner carefully, considering what is known about their habits and the visible part of their behavior, which helps avoid suffering from what one is not willing to tolerate. -   He who marries badly always weeps. -   He who has a bad wife is always startled. -   Beauty without prudence brings trouble to the husband. -   There is no heavier burden than a frivolous woman. Keep in mind that a partner is not a possession and their personal space must be respected. -   Even among the trees in the forest, there must be space. Address any dissatisfaction with the other person's behavior within the framework of mutual respect. -   Not with silence or shouting, but by talking and reaching an agreement. -   Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument. Be systematic with the attention given to prevent gaps that could...

Jealousy I.

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The Partner is Not a Possession Romantic love is generally accompanied by a certain degree of fear of losing the relationship. -   Love without jealousy is not sent from above. -   Love and jealousy are twin brothers. A bit of jealousy can make one feel loved and special, seasoning the relationship when present in the right place, time, and measure. However, jealousy can become pathological and suffocating. -   Whoever marries a jealous person lives in purgatory. -   Jealousy, like salt, enhances the flavor a little but can cause harm in excess. This occurs when jealousy is excessively high, accompanied by great insecurity in one's ability to emotionally retain the other person, unjustified distrust in them and others, and fear of being abandoned and ridiculed. This leads to interpreting any ordinary event in the partner's life as an indication of interest or romantic relationships with others. -   Some see smoke where there's no fire. -...