MENTAL HEALTH IN THE HEART OF MAUN

Closing a cycle isn’t just about deciding to move forward—it also means going through a process of grief. Many times, we think grief only belongs to the loss of a loved one, but in reality, we experience it every time we let go of something that mattered in our lives: a relationship, a job, a project, or a stage of life. Grief is how our mind and heart adjust to the absence of what is no longer there. Far from being an obstacle, it is a bridge we need in order to heal and open ourselves to what comes next. 🌿 The Stages of Grief Applied to Closing Cycles 🔹 Denial At first, it’s hard to accept that something has ended. We tell ourselves: “This can’t be” or “Maybe it will change.” That’s normal—but staying too long in denial keeps us trapped in what no longer exists. 🔹 Anger Frustration arises—at ourselves, at others, or even at life itself. This emotion should not be suppressed but channeled in a healthy way: writing, talking, exercising. 🔹 Bargaining We look for “shortcuts” ...

Closing a cycle isn’t about slamming the door shut and forgetting—it’s about looking back with the intention of learning from what happened. Every experience, even the most painful one, carries within it a lesson that can turn into strength if we choose to recognize it. At first, it’s often hard to see, because pain clouds our vision. Yet with time, we realize that what once hurt us also transformed us: it made us more aware, more resilient, and more human. 🌿 The Value of Hidden Lessons 🔹 Pain as a Teacher Hard moments teach us more than we think: patience, endurance, and the ability to rise again. Pain is uncomfortable, but it’s often the spark that ignites growth. 🔹 Mistakes as a Guide Making mistakes doesn’t mean failing—it means discovering paths that don’t work. Each mistake carries a lesson that, if embraced, brings us closer to what we’re truly seeking. 🔹 Joy as a Reminder It’s not only suffering that teaches us. Happy moments remind us of what we want to repeat, w...

It’s not always easy to know when the moment has come to close a cycle. Many times, we cling to people, situations, or stages of life out of fear of the unknown or simply out of habit. Yet, both the heart and mind send us clear signals when something no longer belongs in our present. Listening to those signals is the first step toward freedom. 🌿 Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 🔹 Emotional stagnation When we feel stuck in the same place, as if we’re reliving the same scene over and over, it’s a sign the cycle has fulfilled its purpose. Growth is no longer there. 🔹 Loss of meaning and enthusiasm If what once filled us with joy now only brings indifference or exhaustion, it’s likely that chapter of our life needs to close. Enthusiasm is a thermometer of our vital connection. 🔹 Repeating harmful patterns When conflicts, arguments, or mistakes keep happening in the same space or relationship, despite our efforts to change them, the message is clear: it’s time to take a different st...

In life, we all go through stages that leave deep marks: a relationship that transformed us, a job that taught us, a friendship that shaped us, a project that came to an end. Some of these experiences brought us joy, others pain, but all contributed something valuable to our story. However, there comes a time when what once nourished us no longer feeds us in the same way. Then the inevitable question arises: is it time to close this cycle? Closing a cycle is not a cold act or simply “turning the page.” It is a conscious process of maturity and self-love that invites us to let go of what has already fulfilled its purpose, to make space for what’s new. 🌿 What Closing a Cycle Really Means 🔹 Recognizing that a stage has fulfilled its purpose. Nothing happens by chance. Every experience carries a lesson or a gift. Closing a cycle means accepting that its role is complete and it’s time to move forward. 🔹 Accepting reality as it is. Closing a cycle means stopping the struggle aga...

Love and passion don’t sustain themselves—they require care, intention, and daily gestures. While relationships evolve over time, that doesn’t mean they should become monotonous or lose their initial spark. Here are some effective strategies to strengthen your connection and keep the excitement alive. 1. Keep Flirting with Each Other 🔹 Send affectionate or unexpected messages throughout the day. 🔹 Play with eye contact and body language to maintain attraction. 🔹 Remember how you won each other over at the beginning—and keep doing it. 📌 "Desire doesn’t fade; it just stops being fueled." 2. Prioritize Quality Time 🔹 Turn off your phones and give each other full attention when together. 🔹 Plan dates, even if you've been together for years. 🔹 Enjoy shared activities, from watching a series to cooking together. 📌 "Routine isn’t the problem; forgetting what matters is." 3. Maintain Physical Connection 🔹 Kiss with intention every day, not just out ...

Love is not just about commitment and communication; it’s also about the joy of sharing life together. A relationship that lacks fun and spontaneity can become predictable and lose some of its spark. Laughter, surprise, and creativity are essential ingredients for keeping the connection alive and making every day feel special. In this chapter, we will explore how fun and surprise can strengthen a relationship, becoming key allies for long-term happiness. Routine: Friend or Foe of Love? Routine often gets a bad reputation in relationships, but the truth is that it’s not always a negative thing. It can be both a source of stability and a silent enemy if not managed well. 🔹 When routine is an ally: Having shared habits and a structured life brings security and trust to the relationship. Planning activities together, sharing meals, or having couple rituals can strengthen the bond. 🔹 When routine becomes a problem: If everything becomes too predictable and monotonous, the relati...

When talking about intimacy in a couple , it is often associated exclusively with sexual life. However, true intimacy goes far beyond that. It is the deep connection that binds two people together, allowing them to be authentic with each other, share their emotions, vulnerabilities, and dreams without fear of judgment. Intimacy is a fundamental pillar of a lasting relationship. It does not arise out of nowhere, nor does it sustain itself over time; it requires intention, effort, and the willingness to continue cultivating it at every stage of the relationship. Different Forms of Intimacy: Beyond Sex Physical contact is an important part of intimacy, but it is not the only one. A couple with a deep connection experiences different types of intimacy that strengthen their relationship on multiple levels. 🔹 Emotional intimacy : Built on trust and openness to share feelings, thoughts, and fears without the fear of rejection. Strengthening this connection involves listening with empath...

💖 All relationships have conflicts . It is inevitable. But what truly matters is not the number of disagreements but how they are handled. Some couples distance themselves after an argument, while others manage to strengthen their bond and emerge even more united. 🔥 The art of resolving conflicts without damaging the relationship or extinguishing passion lies in learning to argue with respect , manage differences with maturity, and find ways to reconnect after a disagreement. 💬 Arguing Without Damaging the Relationship Arguments do not have to be destructive. When approached with empathy and effective communication , they can be an opportunity to improve the relationship. 🔹 Avoid Personal Attacks : It's very different to say, "I would like you to pay more attention when I talk to you" than to say, "You never listen to me; you are indifferent." How we express our concerns can make the difference between solving a problem or escalating the conflict. ...

Love is not just about feelings; it is also expressed and strengthened through communication . A relationship where both partners feel understood, valued, and heard has a greater chance of thriving over time. Emotional closeness does not appear out of nowhere. It is built through the way we speak, listen, and connect with our partner. Without affective communication , even the most intense relationships can become fragile and distant. Listening and Being Heard: The Key to Emotional Closeness Talking about love is easy, but demonstrating it through communication requires effort and attention. Exchanging words is not enough; both partners must feel truly understood . 🔹 Listening is more than hearing: Often, we are so focused on what we want to say that we forget to genuinely pay attention to what our partner is expressing. Active listening is key to strengthening the connection. 🔹 Emotional validation is essential: It’s not just about giving advice or solving problems but a...

Lasting love is not a product of chance or mere initial compatibility. While attraction and chemistry play an important role at the beginning of a relationship, maintaining connection over time requires more than good moments and spontaneous affinities. Building a strong and passionate love is a conscious decision , cultivated daily with intention, commitment, and concrete actions. Why Do Some Couples Keep the Spark Alive While Others Don’t? Surely, you’ve met couples who, even after years together, still look at each other with admiration, laugh together, and enjoy each other’s company as if it were their first day. Meanwhile, others, despite starting with great intensity, eventually lose their spark, caught in routine, indifference, or even disinterest. What makes the difference? It’s not just luck or finding the "perfect" person. The key lies in care and intention. 🔹 Love needs maintenance : Just like a plant requires water and sunlight to grow, love needs to be nur...

Lasting love is often surrounded by misconceptions that can lead to frustration and unrealistic expectations. Passion in a relationship doesn’t just fade away—it diminishes when we stop nurturing it. Let’s debunk some of the most common myths about passion over time and discover the realities that can help strengthen your relationship. 🔹 Myth 1: "If we love each other, everything will flow effortlessly." ✅ Reality: Every relationship requires intention and effort. Love is like a campfire—if you stop fueling it, it will go out. 💡 Reflection: Feeling in love is not enough; you have to actively invest in the relationship every day. Small gestures, deep conversations, and quality time make all the difference. 🔹 Myth 2: "Routine kills love." ✅ Reality: Routine itself isn’t the problem—monotony is. A couple can have a structured life while still finding ways to surprise and reconnect with each other. 💡 Reflection: Shared habits can be allies in a relation...

Long-term love is surrounded by misconceptions that can lead to frustration and unrealistic expectations. Passion in a relationship does not simply fade away—it disappears when we stop nurturing it. 💡 Let’s debunk some of the most common myths about passion over time and discover the realities that can help strengthen your relationship. 🔥 Myth 1: "If we love each other, everything will flow effortlessly." ✅ Reality: Every relationship requires intention and effort. Love is like a fire—if you stop tending to it, it goes out. 💡 Reflection: Feeling in love isn’t enough; you have to actively nurture your relationship every day. Small gestures, deep conversations, and quality time make all the difference. 💞🔥💞 🌀 Myth 2: "Routine kills love." ✅ Reality: Routine is not the problem—monotony is. A couple can have a structured life and still find ways to surprise each other and renew their connection. 💡 Reflection: Shared habits can strengthen a relatio...