🎯💑 The Art of Choosing a Partner: Interview with the Author 🎤📘✨
✍️ On the occasion of the release of The Art of Choosing a Partner: Keys to Making a Wise Decision in Love
💬 Choosing a partner isn’t just about love... it’s a decision that can shape the direction of your life.
In this special interview, we sit down with Dr. Arturo José Sánchez Hernández — a psychiatrist, university professor, and author of several books on personal growth and healthy relationships — who shares reflections, life lessons, and practical advice on the art of making wise choices in love.
💙 An honest conversation that will make you think, feel… and maybe even reconsider some of your past choices.
1. Why did you write this book?
I’ve always been fascinated by how we make decisions in love — and why we sometimes keep making the same mistakes. The Art of Choosing a Partner was born from the need to provide clear and practical tools to help people make wiser romantic choices, avoid unnecessary suffering, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
2. Who is this book for?
For anyone who wants to improve their love life. Whether you’re searching for a partner, questioning your current relationship, or simply trying to understand how attraction and compatibility really work — this book will be useful for you.
3. What kind of people have connected most with the message of the book?
I’ve found that people who’ve been through difficult relationships and don’t want to repeat the same patterns really resonate with the message. It’s also been very well received by young adults who are starting to explore love with more awareness, and by therapists and coaches who use it as a tool in their work with clients.
4. What makes this book different from other relationship books?
Many books on relationships give general advice, but this one focuses on decision-making grounded in compatibility, emotional maturity, and self-awareness. It also blends practical strategies with sayings and illustrations that make the content more relatable and easier to reflect on.
5. Does the book include exercises or practical tools?
Yes. Each chapter is designed to invite deep reflection but also includes key questions, self-assessment exercises, and real-life examples that help you apply the concepts to your own love story. It’s not just about reading — it’s about transforming yourself along the way.
That’s what makes the difference.
6. What will readers learn from this book?
🔹 How to tell the difference between infatuation and true love
🔹 What warning signs to look for in a relationship
🔹 How to stop repeating toxic patterns from the past
🔹 What to consider before making a serious commitment
🔹 How to develop a clear and realistic view of love
7. What are some common mistakes people make when choosing a partner?
From putting someone on a pedestal to ignoring obvious red flags. I also talk about the importance of shared values and lifestyle compatibility — and how the rush to find a partner can often lead to poor choices.
8. What are the consequences of choosing the wrong partner?
Choosing the wrong person can cause emotional pain, slow down your personal growth, damage your self-esteem, and drag you into unhealthy relationships that drain you. A rushed or unconscious decision can affect years of your life. That’s why learning to choose wisely — without relying on chance or emotion alone — is so essential.
9. What inspired you to write about this topic?
I’ve seen so many people suffer from rushed or poorly thought-out romantic decisions. Love is one of the most important areas of life, but too often we let emotions guide us more than wisdom. My goal is to help people choose with their heart — but also with clarity.
10. What makes a relationship truly healthy and lasting?
Respect, trust, compatibility, mutual admiration, and honest communication. Without these foundations, even the most passionate relationship will weaken over time.
11. How long does it take to find the right partner?
There’s no set formula, but what matters most isn’t how long it takes — it’s how well you prepare yourself to choose wisely. It’s better to wait and choose well than to rush and regret it later.
12. What advice would you give to someone who hasn’t found a partner yet?
Before focusing on finding someone, focus on yourself. The best way to attract a healthy relationship is by cultivating your own emotional well-being and personal growth. Make sure you’re ready to contribute to the kind of relationship you want, and that you’re not falling into self-sabotaging patterns that could be blocking love in your life.
13. How can this book change a reader’s life?
It can give them clarity, confidence, and the tools to make better romantic decisions. Choosing a partner is one of the most important choices you’ll ever make, and this book will help you do it with confidence and wisdom.
📖 If you're ready to learn how to choose with both your heart and your mind, this book is for you.
✨ Your next great decision could start right here.
👉 Pick your language and access the version that suits you best:
🔹 Spanish: https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-Spanish
🔹 English: https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-English
🔹 Portuguese: https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-Portuguese
🔹 French: https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-French
🔹 Italian: https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-Italian
💬 Do you know someone who needs to read this?
Share this interview with them. It could be the first step toward a healthier love story. 💙
🔥 Don’t leave your happiness in love up to chance! 💙
With care,
Dr. Arturo José Sánchez Hernández, your friend in health promotion 💙
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