💖 Difference Between Infatuation and True Love 💖

🌿 At some point in life, we’ve all felt that fluttering in our stomach, that intense emotion that makes us think we’ve found the perfect person. But is it really love, or just infatuation? Understanding the difference between these two concepts can help us make wiser decisions in our relationships and avoid unnecessary heartbreak.

✨ What is Infatuation?

Infatuation is an intense emotional state that occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It’s that phase where everything seems magical and perfect. During this stage, the brain releases a series of chemicals like dopamine and oxytocin, creating a feeling of euphoria and attachment.

🔹 Characteristics of Infatuation:
✅ Idealization of the partner.
✅ Strong physical attraction.
✅ Desire to be together all the time.
✅ Impulsiveness in the relationship.
✅ Lack of a realistic view of the other person’s flaws.

🌟 However, infatuation is fleeting. Over time, the intensity of these emotions fades, giving way to a deeper and more stable phase: true love.

❤️ What is True Love?

True love goes beyond temporary emotions. It is a deep connection built over time, based on respect, trust, and emotional compatibility. This is the phase where two people truly know each other and choose to stay together despite challenges.

🔹 Characteristics of True Love:
✅ Accepting your partner with their strengths and weaknesses.
✅ Mutual support in difficult times.
✅ Honest and open communication.
✅ Trust and respect.
✅ Long-term commitment.

💡 While infatuation is an intense but fleeting flame, true love is the fire that stays lit over time, fueled by commitment and emotional maturity.

🔥 How Do You Know If Your Relationship is True Love?

If your relationship has moved past the infatuation stage and remains strong, if there is mutual respect, if you support each other through tough times, and if you enjoy being together without idealizing each other, then you’ve likely built a foundation of true love.

💖 Remember: love is not just butterflies in the stomach but choosing the same person every day with both heart and reason.

🌱 Final Thoughts

Infatuation is beautiful and exciting, but it’s not enough to build a lasting relationship. True love requires time, effort, and commitment. It’s important to recognize the difference so that you don’t mistake a fleeting emotion for a real and profound feeling.

✨ If you’re in a relationship, ask yourself: Is it just a passing emotion or a love built on solid foundations?

With care,

Dr. Arturo José Sánchez Hernández, your friend in health promotion ðŸ’™

Excerpt from the book: “The Art of Choosing a Partner: Keys to a Wise Decision in Love”

You can find it online starting this February 14 at:

https://books2read.com/The-Art-of-Choosing-a-Partner

Available also in Setswana at: 

https://books2read.com/Choosing-a-Partner-Setswana



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